Being a first responder is often a calling, one that we can not ignore.  However, that calling comes with sacrifice!  It does not matter who you are, this path will take its toll, and make its mark, and affect you in one way or another.  That is a fact!!!  You have the power and ability to make sure the sacrifices are fewer and that your true self remains in tact, so that you can accept the calling and still live your best life!!